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Frequently Asked Questions

I am not comfortable sending a photo of my government issued ID, is there a way around this?

I require all new clients to be screened, no exceptions. This is for me to confirm that you are who you say you are, to ensure that you are someone safe. I take our mutual privacy seriously, and I will never share your information, email or our conversation with anyone else. This requirement is non negotiable. If your privacy is a concern, a Non Disclosure Agreement is also available upon request. Intimacy requires transparency and trust.

Why don’t you offer same day appointments?

I am not an emergency room. You will not die if you don’t receive a same day appointment, I promise you. I do not offer same-day appointments, ever. This allows me to maintain a balanced and fulfilling personal life, ensuring that I can be fully present, rested and focused during our scheduled time together. I ask for your understanding and encourage you to plan ahead by scheduling in advance like a normal person.

Do you offer Outcall Services?

At this time, I choose not to offer outcall sessions. The carefully curated ambiance and energy of my Temple space plays a crucial role in enhancing the overall experience for my clients. The thoughtfully selected fragrances and the tranquil atmosphere contribute to a serene and therapeutic environment, ensuring that clients receive the highest level of relaxation and rejuvenation during their session. By maintaining control over the space, I can guarantee a consistently premium and immersive experience that may be compromised in unfamiliar or external settings. Basically, the vibes in my place are immaculate. :)

Why don’t you offer one hour tantra sessions for first time clients?

I refrain from providing hour-long appointments for first timers as I believe it does not afford ample time for us to genuinely connect, get to know each other and revel in intimacy practices. It is impossible for you to completely relax, unwind and be fully present during the experience in one hour. My service is very intentional and un-rushed. If you're looking to walk into an appointment, get naked and just hop on my table without so much as a conversation, you came to the wrong party. I require connection and safety with (and for) all my clients before we engage in touch. I need you to feel safe with me too.

Why do I have to send a deposit to book a reservation?

To ensure that I can provide you with the best service and reserve the time specifically for you, I kindly request a small deposit. This not only secures your reservation but also reflects a commitment from you to our scheduled appointment. A deposit is required to book a reservation and you will not receive an appointment without it. According to my research, those who send a deposit in good faith rarely ever cancel.

Does the session include a Sacred Spot massage?

A general session does not include a Sacred Spot (prostate) massage, but if you express an interest, I offer it as an add on* service for an additional $150. If you would like to add this service I will need it communicated to me before our appointment begins.

What do you mean when you say “surrender to the Feminine”?

We live in a society where men are always expected to perform. It’s like a compulsion, most don’t know when to shut it off or even if they can. When I ask you to surrender in my Temple, it means letting go of the need for control or dominance. I want you to allow yourself to be vulnerable and trust the unfolding of the experience. Allow, be adaptable, and go with the flow rather than resisting. Think of it as a challenge to traditional gender roles. Why do men have such a hard time just receiving? When was the last time you were worshipped and served, without the need for reciprocation? All I ask, is for you to be present, allow yourself to relax and to receive. This practice encourages a more inclusive and fluid understanding of masculine and feminine energy, of which you men are both.

What do you mean by the term ‘intimacy practice’ ?

In the context of Tantra, intimacy practices are techniques and rituals designed to deepen emotional, physical, and spiritual connections between partners. Tantra, which has its roots in ancient Indian spiritual traditions, views intimacy not just as a physical act but as a holistic experience that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Some key examples of intimacy practices may include presence and awareness, breath work, meditation, eye gazing, sensual touch, extended foreplay, energy exchange, exploration of boundaries and creating a safe space. If deepening your connection with another human is not your jam, then this service is probably not for you.

What can I expect during a 90 minute versus a 2 hour tantra session?

This only pertains to sessions if it is our first time meeting. I highly recommend if it is your first time, to book a 2 hour session.

All sessions involve us getting comfortable and having a discussion about your needs and intentions. I will also share how the session will be conducted, we will discuss desires, consent and boundaries. I feel it is important for us to build connection and safety.

A 90 minute session will include 2 intimacy practices, bodywork, lingham massage, integration with scalp and facial massage. This is a one way touch offering where I am the giver and you are the receiver. This session is for those who want to unwind, relax and receive.

A 2 hour session is for those who want to foster a deeper emotional connection before we engage in touch. It will include 2 intimacy practices, conscious deep conversation game, a guided mutual touch exploration game, breath work, bodywork, lingham massage, integration with scalp and facial massage.

If you decide to continue to work together after your initial first session, future sessions will be curated based on your needs.

A 2 hour 4 Hand session is an intimate journey into surrender and divine connection, the Four-Hand Tantric Offering envelops you in a sacred dance of presence, sensuality, and energy. Two attuned practitioners work in harmonious rhythm, weaving conscious touch, breath, and intention to awaken your senses and open your heart. This offering is a devotional experience and an invitation to drop deeply into your body, release tension, and remember your innate wholeness. This is a one way touch offering. The other provider will be my friend and mentor Zipporah of hightantra.com

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What is the Altar of Surrender?

For those curious about the realms of submission and sensory exploration, The Altar of Surrender is a sensual BDSM experience designed to strip away your defenses and guide you into a state of profound trust. Under the gaze of the Goddess, you are invited to lay down the burden of control. Through breathwork, sensory deprivation, and ritualistic touch, we will cultivate a dynamic of absolute reverence. Allow yourself to be held, guided, and possessed in a sanctuary where your vulnerability is honored as a gift. You will experience sensual sensation play (feathers, sharp tools, nails, vibrator, temperature play, light impact, sensual CBT) edging and loving aftercare. Desires and boundaries will be discussed before the session begins. This is a one way touch offering where you are the Sub and I am the Dom.

What is included in Goddess Worship?

Bring your hands, your mouth, your warmth, and your reverence. Goddess Worship is a service-oriented session where you are tasked with the care and worship of My physical form. You will map the landscape of My body. This is not a standard mutual exchange; it is a prayer performed with your touch. I will guide your pressure and your pace, teaching you exactly how a Goddess deserves to be touched. Your goal is to melt My tension and prove your devotion through the quality of your touch.

Do you have any Educational Offerings?

Yes! The Mastery Exchange is an educational offering designed to give you the confidence and the competence to navigate the female form with reverence. In this 1:1 workshop, we move beyond the mechanical and into the magical. I will teach you the specific techniques, anatomy, and energetic presence required to give a profound Yoni Massage. Stop guessing and start guiding. Gain the confidence to touch her with purpose, reverence, and skill. By the end of this training, you will no longer feel anxiety about "performing." You will have a toolkit of skills that allows you to approach your partner with total confidence. You will not just be giving a massage; you will be giving her the gift of feeling completely adored.

This offering is reserved exclusively for established clients who have demonstrated an understanding of the sacred container, boundaries, and energetic work foundational to my practice.

What is included in Tantra Massage for Women?

Unapologetic pleasure starts with self-knowledge. This tantric experience focuses on the art of Yoni Massage to melt away stress and activate your orgasmic potential. Whether you are looking to deepen your solo practice or simply want to feel more 'vibrant' in your skin, this mapping session provides a luxurious, safe, and expert-guided exploration of your most intimate self. Together, we will create a slow, ceremonial space to honor your body’s wisdom, using conscious touch and presence to help you reclaim your pleasure as a birthright. This session is slow-paced and guided by your active consent at every stage. Yoni mapping can sometimes release stored emotions (crying or laughing) and all expressions are welcome. The goal is awareness, not necessarily an orgasm (although it is welcome), which removes the pressure to perform.

I am still confused and I would like to chat before I decide to book a session, can we do that?

I do not offer discovery calls.  In my experience these calls often attract men who want my time for free. I am not here to convince you or to sell you. I prefer to cater to men who move with intention. I have designed my website to be very informative. It contains detailed information about my services, processes, and testimonials from previous clients. If after reviewing the information on my website you feel that my services align with your needs, I would be happy to move forward with the next step, which is to book an in person session. If after reviewing my website and you are still confused or uncertain, it is by design, please follow your gut. My service is for those who are ready to explore something new and jump in with both feet.

Do you see women or couples?

At this time, my service is for men and women, I do not see couples.

How do I know you are real and not a scammer? You don’t have reviews.

I am a human being, not a restaurant or product that you can rate and review. If you are looking for reviews written by little boys who kiss and tell, then you are not the clientele for me. It is your job as a grown up man to do your due diligence and research any provider you are looking to spend time and money with. I have an entire page dedicated on how to do this safely here —> Guide As far as making sure I am not an AI bot, you can follow me on onlyfans its FREE, and there you will find real photos, videos and educational content. You can also follow me on twitter here I talk shit often. You’re Welcome, I basically did the work for you.

I filled out your booking form and have not received a response yet, how come?

There may be several reasons why I have denied your inquiry.

Insufficient Information: The introductory/bio section is really your chance to shine and it requires effort and intention. A lazy, one sentence introduction is not going to cut it for me. Please do better.

Booking Timeline: I have a policy that limits appointment bookings to a maximum of two weeks out in advance. Any requests beyond this timeframe cannot be accommodated. I will also ignore you if you have the audacity to ask for a same day appointment. This tells me you do not know how to read.

Unclear Desired Date + Time: Please provide a specific date and time for your booking in the designated field. General terms like 'early afternoon' or 'morning' are too vague, as they can mean different things to different people. If an exact date and time are not provided, I won’t respond to your inquiry.

Identification Requirements: Proper identification is mandatory for booking. Unfortunately, a selfie does not meet this requirement, as my priority is ensuring my safety. Again, this tells me you cannot follow simple rules.

Client Reputation: This is a close-knit industry, girls talk and your reputation matters significantly. If there are previous concerns from other providers regarding frequent last-minute cancellations or no-shows, not wanting to screen or send a deposit, negotiating rates (yuck) or exceeding boundaries, I WILL hear about it and it can affect my decision in not wanting to work with you. I don’t have time for time wasters or unserious bookers.

It’s the bare minimum for you to read my website entirely and follow my protocols. If you think I am asking for too much, there are hundreds of other providers and scammers who will ask you for less, please go take your chances with them and good luck.